Was thinking about what is a reasonably normal amount of sexual activity for a mid life person, 40's, 50's, no real health problems? Has motive and (regular) opportunity as they say in the police shows. Or have the Viagra and other pharmaceuticals made us believe that everyone else in that age group is making it like rabbits and we want to get in on it too. "The Viagra Blues-who sang it". The Boomer Generation doesn't want to age and probably still wants the level of activity of their youth but is it just leading to sex depression. The quest for statistical and anecdotal info begins for this intrepid writer.

While I'm on the subject, which is more important to helping a relationship grow or stay strong-a wonderful physical love life-ongoing (not once in a blue moon when all the stars are aligned) or great communication channels? Does it change if there are external problems or challenges either of the two people are facing?