Questions for Couples Book-Sample Questions

Here's about 10 actual questions for couples to help them really understand each other. Many more in this book, Questions for Couples by Michael Webb. Mentioned this a few days ago. Some people asked for more info. I've said before that I think this can be very effective for people who are able to express themselves clearly and are able to listen and understand what another person is saying, and sometimes not saying.

Sample Questions:
What rituals could be added to our relationship on a daily, weekly, monthly and yearly basis that would help us to remain close?

Do you need to hear "I love you" or similar words on a regular basis from your partner?

What does my family do that annoys you?

Is it ever appropriate for someone to express anger in a physical way? If so, when and how?

If a fire destroyed your home and all of your belongings, what would you do? If you could take out three things before the blaze, what would they be? (Assuming there is no one in the house at the time of the fire.)

When you are sick and feeling poorly, do you like to be alone or do you like to be pampered and have someone close to your side most of the time?

Do you think you would prefer a calm, loving, consistent marriage or one that was full of excitement, wild times and rocky patches?

What makes you feel secure and safe?

Which do you think should have the final say in decisions - logic or emotions? Why?

What five things have you done in your life that you are most proud of?