Affirm Your Way To Better Love

"It is important to remind yourself that you are with your partner through your own free choice.  Your partner is not forcing you to remain in the relationship, regardless of the ways in which they express their attachment to you. 

Each day, you choose to stay in the relationship.  (If this doesn't apply to you, or for example you feel trapped and just want to make the best of it, you really should be looking for some other types of relationship improvement or ending relationships advice: my comment).

According to your own deeper sense of who you are and what you want in your life, you feel your partner is the most appropriate person for you to be with you right now.  By acknowledging that internally and in various verbal and physical ways you can help the relationship grow deeper and stronger too.

Use your own positive affirmations to make the most of the opportunities that your relationship offers you for growth.  Through your relationship you can increase self-knowledge and build greater intimacy.

Because actions and emotions follow intentions, make it an intention to honour and respect your partner to create a relationship that brings out the best in both of you.

Here are some affirmations that you may want to use:

-We will treat each other with mutual respect and honesty.

-We are free to be together.

-We honour the love between us.

-We prioritize pleasure.

-We glorify our sexuality."

from Tantric Secrets-7 Steps to the best sex of your life, by Cassandra Lorius

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